When I only view life through the lens of “right now,” it is often perceived as unfair. [But] as we have the promise and hope of all our tears being wiped away, so can the pain and grief that accompanies unfairness be wiped away through redemptive experiences and lessons from God.
Remember, God put you and your child together on purpose. Whether by birth or marriage, adoption or fostering, God is in the details of this mothering business and He put you together for a purpose. Just ask Him. He will let you know.