By Becky Kemp

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Becoming – Join me as we step forward together.

Have you ever considered that the direction you are headed is less linear and more circular?

I used to think of my story as being here today and wanting to get there tomorrow…and the only movement was in a forward linear direction. I felt stuck and unsure of how to move forward. When I looked around at others it appeared that everyone else was easily moving forward! I would ask myself, “why is my journey not easy?”

What if I told you that moving forward has little to do with your actions and everything to do with your thoughts?! So my thought that everyone else’s journey is easy and mine was not—was not useful. It was not getting me the life I always wanted.

As my story has been awakened by the power of words; I have discovered that yes, my life experiences do move me forward but not just from left to right. The movement is often more of an upward and downward process based on the words I “put on”. This has been one of my awakenings with the power of words!

Where I put my focus is where I go. If I focus upward and on the good…that is the direction I head. There is more to life than just taking the actions needed to become. It starts with the thoughts we think and focus on.

Did you know that in a days’ time the average human has over 60,000 thoughts? Our brain is always thinking and having thoughts. At least half of the thoughts—30,000 or so we are not even aware of and most of them are not useful and often are negative. Why is this? Our brains are made to process. Things come in and out of the brain all day long. Our brains are made to avoid pain, seek pleasure and to be efficient— (or to do as little as possible).

So our brain is doing exactly what it should be doing by having thoughts. We get to become more aware of our thoughts and choose to focus on the ones that serve us. I have discovered the “word effect” in my life and want to share it with you.

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It starts by just having a desire to begin…to live a more intentional life. It starts by becoming aware of your thoughts. The key is that our thoughts we choose to focus on cause our feelings and it is our feelings that drive our actions and those actions create the results we are getting right now!

It starts with a thought. I would love to share some positive and proactive tools with you so you can awaken your story and live the life you have always wanted to create. The definition of BECOMING is “The process of coming to be something or of passing into a state.” I love this! The process of coming to be something! That sounds doable to me…it is a process. I can do that! So can you!!

I am offering a FREE 30 min thought work coaching session where together we will discover the direction you are going and see the possibility within you to move your story to where you want it to be. Go to and sign up under the coaching tab. Be brave! Give it a try. What do you have to lose? Nothing! And ask yourself this…what if this changes everything?!

Words Matter! Create the life you want with the power of words. Xo, Becky

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